Divorce is an emotionally challenging event for any family, but the unique issues surrounding children when parents choose to divorce must be considered. In the UK, there are specific regulations and guidelines that dictate how best to protect children’s well being during a divorce, but many challenges remain.
The impact on children from divorce
When couples decide to end their marriage in England or Wales they must consider how their divorce will impact on any minors in the household and make decisions with their welfare at heart. All parties involved must agree on arrangements for the children’s residence, contact with each parent, financial provisions including child maintenance payments, schooling, medical care and other matters such as name changes if necessary.
The best approach to deal with guilt or anxiety
First and foremost, children going through a divorce may struggle with feelings of guilt or betrayal. It is important for parents to take extra care in communicating with their kids during this time so that they can be reassured that both parents still love and care for them despite the split. Additionally, children may experience anxiety over being separated from one parent or having to juggle separate households between two homes. Parents should prioritise coming up with a consistent visitation plan so their kids can maintain a sense of routine and stability in spite of significant life changes.
The court has a duty to ensure that all parties meet their legal obligations concerning finances and child support which is why it is advisable to seek professional legal advice before entering into discussions about arrangements for your children after divorce.
Matters surrounding the welfare of children in a divorce are one of the areas we get asked about most frequently at rhw. If you need some advice or legal guidance, contact our family law team. email: family@www.rhw.co.uk call: 01483 302000
